Is there something called an unconditional love? Can you fall in love each day and how about the charm and charisma staying after years of relationship or does it fade with time? What if you don’t approve of certain things about the other one after being together for so long and you just think that you are still crazy in love. Do you accept how your love is or you would want him to change?? Quite a few of things stay unanswered and there is no reasoning to them. Some of them can surely turn out to be relationship killers.
At time couples get super busy with their professional lives that they just forget to stay connected which is super important in a relationship, you need to take some time out and make the other one feel special. There are so many ways that you can just make his/ her day. You need to be there when the other one needs you. You got to express, you got to let out what you feel is not going on correct, you got to communicate and not take the bond for granted. Sometimes those small things are just what are required.
One of the biggest relationship killers is not giving each other space. Let that person be how he is, you have fallen for him and loved the way he is, so why do you want him to be any different . And is not love all about compromises, adjustments, and not really counting on the give and takes. Let them flee and the will definitely come back.
The huge killer is talking about exes. Talking about the past is going round and round where there is no end to it. How does it even matter what happened in the past? Everyone grows in a relationship and it teaches you so much. You mature, you learn and you become a better person. You really need to understand the situation before really judging the other side. Having your own assumptions and inferences about is just not correct. Everything just turns out to be perfect with some time and less of ego. Envy and comparison can never go well if you are in love. So let the talk happening, be the genie for one another, fall in love each day because relationship might not last, but the memories lasts forever!!