Most of us have read the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, if you haven’t read the book! I am sure you have come across this famous phrase. if you are still lost I will get the story in a line, what it talks about is both the genders have its own rules and customs and it gets really tricky while working together, if the men give out solutions to women’s problems they don’t want the answers rather they just want to talk about it. It stands true in quite a few of situations but while interpreting what women really want is not complicated at all. It is such an overstatement when boys think that girl’s reasoning cannot be understood most of the times.

Let me point out in several lines and paragraphs ::

Girls want somebody who can fight for them, might sound totally filmy but they surely want someone who could say : I am going to be right next to you or there for you when you need me. You just have to believe.These words want to be heard even when the relationships a decade old. Its not a commitment that they are looking for but reassuring that the person that they have fallen for is worth it.

It’s a fact that a women wants all the pamper-ness, she wants to be felt like a princess, not once nor twice but time and again, you need to get yourselves ready for some appreciations just to make her day, even if you are in the mood , a smile of hers is just the perfect one that you fell for.

Ladies, you love occasions and remember dates so well that you would score a 10 on ten if there was a test. Be it the first time that you were asked out, monthly-anniversaries, the first ever fight, or the smallest detailed conversation, it is etched to your heart. When you think about it, why shouldn’t it. These dates resemble a situation, a moment. When girls try to make each of your day special, even if you don’t want so much of attention, you could make one of the dates somewhere she would not forget in the longest time. Its not about expectation or payback, it’s about making her feel she is the one, when you are in the crowd, as much as when you are alone.

Women so want men to balance their personal and professional shit together. It’s not only them who have aspirations and dreams, and that doesn’t give them the liberty of not having a couple of minutes in a day for their loved ones.

You need not be emotion less when you feel it. If you miss her, let her know, if you are thinking about her, call her. She loves feeling extraordinary as much as she is crazy about her feelings.

Don’t expect a girl to understand it all, even if she doesn’t, say it out loud, how does it matter, if you just say out loud what you want and when.

A girl would love the charm to be forever, the same love,the chemistry, the bond never to fade away, she loves all the fairy tales and want hers to come true too.

So the logic is really simple, even if you are having fun talking about the other girls, checking them out, having a fun and healthy flirtatious conversations, girls want you to chose them above all.

One of the interesting American comedy romantic movies that I am reminded of when I write this article is What women want starring Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt.

P.S:: A girls heart is really strong, think couple of times before you break one, or she might stop believing in love again

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As the New Year has already started, resolution drafting has become way cliché, it’s time for PLAYBOOK, now if you are wondering what it is all about, this book has the events that you look forward to in this year, the things that you want to do, want to achieve – could be something crazy that you had never thought of, something practical, some place which is impossible to go to but what’s the harm in writing and amusing oneself as the number keeps on increasing as you start lettering. While check listing my playbook for last year, I think I cut off 7 out of some 17, which is decent, I guess. What do you think?? One of the things in my list is to travel at least 12 different destinations/ countries that I want to. Let’s see if that’s happening. As each time I forget to make a documentary to a place that I go to, this time again I remembered after we got back.

Anyhow, I am sure there are going to be interesting travels this year too. Travelling sure gives you a high and I sure would love to make memories all around the world whenever I go. Here is my travelogue on the first trip of 2014; we left for the monastery, a drive which was 2 hours from the K-town. The road was straight ahead from Dulhikhel. My cousins were discussing about the amazing places around Nepal and how they are less facilitated for tourist and so much could be done to make it easier for people to travel and reach. This talk led to China border and Sachin gave in the idea of going to Tatopani, which would take only 4-5 hours, all of us were super excited and I was totally in for the plan, we studied the possibilities for a while but somehow we got back to the original schedule of reaching Namo Buddha. Trust me, the last minute plans can get so crazy. I wish we were going to Khasha Bazar. Someday it is going to be that side!

The drive was good fun, talking about the funny- serious stuff, and enjoying the view of the ranges, terrace farming, and the random conversations, we reached in no time. The uphill for the last hour was rocky and that took us time. As we entered the place, I could see the prayer flags all around. It looks gorgeous when the background is white, and the combination of red, yellow, green and blue flags were flowing in the wind. There was couple of monasteries but the best part was the mesmerizing view, prayer flags falling perfectly in line with the majestic Himalayan ranges and we loved the feeling of being in one of the beautiful pagodas. We spent an hour or two, kept clicking number of pictures, with the perfect scenery and we also came to the conclusion how some people just don’t have photography sense. So we had to take some selfie.

Finally we reached the main stupa, the craftsmanship was stunning and the detailed work made it look all the more amazing. There were kids from the age of 4 to 18 sitting in a line, praying out loud, some were blowing sanai and some were busy with the prayer drums and wheel, but the level of discipline and decorum which was present was outstanding. We stayed there for a while and enjoyed the tune of the narsingha trumpet. We covered the total area and finally it was time for us to leave. We started walking as the road led us, finding in sometime that we were lost. We asked the localities how to get to the entrance and after we understood the way for the next 10 minutes we started following the path. As we steeped a few blocks, we could see the entry right there. Sometimes you cannot figure out something which is right in front of you. We drove down hill from the other side and the roads were more horrible than our judgment. Nevertheless, with the fun-filled drive back home, each one of us had a great time and I was planning on the next trip.

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