There are moments which changes your life drastically, your life goes on up suddenly from a low or that sudden incident in your life makes you so stronger that you have never thought you could ever be. It is so strange when we realize the willpower that each one of us have and how we react to the most difficult and challenging situation. This can only be experienced and even we picture ourselves for the toughest battle, we would not be able to give reasoning to our answers.

As I write this article, I would like to ask the readers: Have you ever defeated death, has a second life been gifted to you?? It is so true that our future is all printed – for some they are colorful sooner and for some it stays black and white for a longer period. I believe in KARMA and totally think that when something has to happen, it will, no matter what.

The times that we feel that we have beaten death, and are getting on with our lives, it gives us a second chance to love the life that we have and make the most of each day. That situation where you could do anything to meet your loved ones for the last time, hug them tight and let them know how much you love them, that particular thought when you feel you could get a day to do the things that you would love doing without caring or being judged around. Some last words, hearing your own heart beat, breathing for a minute more, those just stay a wish.

The ones, who have had severe diseases and recovered, have been in the worst accidents but did not get scratched an inch in their body, seen deaths in front of them , been a part of natural calamity, army officers who fight for their motherland, bad travel experiences can totally relate to what this article is all about. Undoubtedly there are individuals who live each day as the last but as the quote says once bitten you are twice shy and it definitely implies as the thought of those incidents still give you those goose bumps and you treasure what living is.

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So, you knew it was coming, and it finally did. Not a happy news though , but nothing can be done about it, as you keep trying to figure things out but there will absolutely be no answers to it. Try finding out mistakes and you fill find none. You never pictured it to be this quick and you wish you would take some years of your life for doing one out of two things. Never had said a yes to the relationship or live those moments once again. If you opt for the latter you need not regret the decision

once taken.

Yes, you got that right we are talking about people being dumped and the post effects of that. Usually, the heartbreaks leads to erasing all the memories of that someone. For quite a few they cannot come out of that mood where the playlist is filled with slow, romantic songs and the meaning are being understood so well as never before. The thought of bumping to your ex or meet him at one of the common friends party is weird. One person that was your darling once upon a time comes to your hatred list. Isn’t that really absurd?? It again depends on how you part your ways, if it is a mutual break up which is super possible than the ball is altogether in different direction.

Nevertheless, there are people who say that you need to be in search for another person, or in contact with someone who will make you feel loved and pampered. Throwing yourself at another person is not a better way to get over the old one. Trust me, Rebound love is not always required even if its for a broken heart. That’s for the weaker ones. You can be your own support and the best power is to distract yourself, indulge in different things keeping yourself occupied. Rebound love is a form of lowering your self respect and not being true to what you feel. Lastly, in a relationship or not keep that bond with your friends forever should always be there cause they are around even if your love won’t and yes do not search for someone, it will just happen before you even know it.

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Before sunrise and after sunset are the most romantic time ever. The majority will vouch for the same.If you are thinking, these are famous romantic movies they definitely are. I have never seen both of them consecutively. The orange ball going down in no time and the beautiful rise which can be captured in the lenses. Indeed, it is a very splendid moment. Trust me, if you have never experienced the same, make sure that you keep this on your bucket list.And my list is one down.

When people say that there is no difference in both of them and the feeling is the same, it’s so wrong. The color and the timing gives in a different feel altogether. So we saw the sunset on the sand dunes. The clear silky sand was making our seats on the ground more comfortable. We could see innumerable sand dunes and the camels with their camel man all around. Thousands of visitors had come to see the sunset. I think people stay in disguise as they are not enjoying the view but are busy clicking thousand of pictures and not living the present. Anyways coming to the point, the sun was going down when all of us started staring at it, the orangish ball turned pinkish and slowly spread the color on the horizon. In a minute everything happened so quickly we did not even realize it was over. It felt as the sun was rotating swiftly.

We so wanted to see the sunrise from the same spot and see how wonderful is it going to look. We kept an alarm around 5 so we would reach the place by 6 in the morning. As all of us were super tired we got up at 6 thinking that we surely missed the rise. But as we got out of our camping tents there we were when the dark pink orange ball was coming out. We were so happy that we weren’t late. It was coming up slowly and we could see it moving behind the tree which gave that extra effect. Far away, there was this beautiful fire ball which gave light all around. The sky was already on a pinkish tone, and by the time the sun rose I am done with my writing while looking at it. The feeling, view can only be understood or seen when experienced by oneself. This piece was just a trailer.

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While I bumped into a friend on one of my travels, the journey went by so quick. We did not realize how two hours felt like 5 mins. One of the best parts when you meet an interesting co-traveler you don’t get to know when the flight has landed, and you are already in your destination. So we were talking about different topics and one of them was commitment in a relationship.

What do you think about it?? Is there a tag necessary to be given when you are with someone?? Do you need the world to know that you are dating her/him and make it on a public attention. Some people who are in love do not care about people knowing that they are with each other, and there are a lot who want to remind the crowd around them that they are madly in love. Which category do you fall in??

Commitment doesn’t always mean that you are going to marry that person after some years. You might not know what is going to happen in five years. The love might fade away, the bond might be stronger than ever, who knows where you are going to be and what will the situation demand of you. No one needs a tag or a line saying that I am in a relationship with him/ her, it’s all about the trust, making the other person feel that he/she is the special one while you are in a group, and the people who are important in your lives celebrating that love that you have fallen for. While you don’t like the idea of keeping the tag, you surely cannot come by as you are single to people that you want to because not being in a relationship is fine but trying to be in many is a crime.

So go ahead give in the tag to the people that matter to you, let the important ones know, don’t wait for the right time as there is none and let the situations do all the talking.

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Day || was more awesome, the city is not that clean but the carvings and work on the building sure does take your heart away ~

The day was all planned for sightseeing at the city. I am still trying to figure out why is it called golden. I guess the town stands on a yellowish sandstone on the fort and everywhere else too that is why it is called golden city ( Wikipedia check still to be done). Usually the best part is when you get to see the places which are not on top of the visitors list. That is how you get to see the real city and the smaller parts of the place. Started up with Jaisalmer fort (500 years old) which took us two and a half hours in total. It is the only residential fort, filled with houses of different communities and shops, it is one of the major attraction in Jaisalmer. There are points where you can see the view of the town clearly. Lots of shops with bargaining to the maximum. The shops that the guide takes you and the stuff that you buy, the shopkeeper has to pay about 40 % to the guide as commission. That’s the system there.

From the fort the next destination were couple of Haveli which were quite impressive and huge. We were all set for desert camping and safari which was 40 Kms from the city. We quickly went to an area to which would come in between Sam,where camel ride and camping was to be done named Kuldhara.
We reached Kuldhara, an abandoned village which was emptied in one night by the soldiers. The rooftops were all broken and the houses remained since years. We heard two versions of the story. One about the girl being forced into marriage and how the united village decided to vacate the entire village overnight. The other one was about the increasing tariffs that the villagers couldn’t give and decided to vacate.

We reached the barrier and finally got ourselves ready for camels ride. There were about 800 camels in total and they take a trip approximately 5 times. With 20 kgs of salt bushes, thorns, dry vegetation twice in a day, camels are sure an expensive animal to own. There is a camel race which happens mid February, an event which people from worldwide come for. We reached the sand dunes in an hour and made ourselves comfortable on the sand. We saw the sunset which was one of the prettiest I have seen till date. Detailed description coming in another write up .

It was time for some Rajasthani music and dances, where this lady was dancing on pieces of glass ,balancing and rotating the heap of coal in a scale. The typical Rajasthani food is not that bad if you like sweets. After a heavy dinner we were chilling at the camps and near the bonfire. We were all given our separate tents which was quite an experience. The trip ended perfectly with the best sunrise which could be seen from the tent and me being successful in driving the jeep.

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Here we are::Day 1

Barren land with some yellow sand, the sound of the wind and a drive in the desert. Perfectly describes how the start to our journey was. Life is so much spicier when we keep exploring and traveling. It’s all about experiences and getting to know various cultures and traditions. The trip to the golden city started with the drive from Bikaner, some 225 Kms. All of us were super lazy in the jeep as we had an amazing reunion of cousins which equals night less sleep for a week. The wedding madness and cousins get together reminds me of so many topics that I have to write on.

So we almost slept 6 hours on the drive and quite interesting part was that the roads were so empty and it felt like we were the only ones traveling on the roads. We could hardly see people. As my mind keeps getting those wicked ideas each time, I kept thinking what if there was a hitch hiker asking us for lift, or in case our vehicle broke down. Thankfully we reached on time ,nothing of the above happening as we crossed military tankers (All in a line), a herd of camels( Only heard about sheep), windmill (Never seen),on our way. We were also at two places at one time (at the crossings).

As we entered the city we could see the Jaisalmer Fort on our right. With the time not being at our disposal, we could only go to one place for sightseeing and we chose that to be Gadisar lake. The artificial lake was made some 800 years before . There are three tombs in the middle which has fine craftsmanship. We were enjoying the boat ride with the perfect sunset ever. The orange ball was setting in prominently and it surely took my heart away. It has residential building with balconies which was used by saints and pilgrims and visitors coming from far off places. It looks beautiful with lights all around. With the change in weather which started from a thick fog, to summer sweat and breezy evenings, we thought of ending our day with a bit of handicraft shopping and loving each architecture and wood work on each house.

A funny observation::We noticed that each residential house has the wedding date of the last couple who got married and their names with Lord Ganesha painted. I tried understanding the reason and the most I understood was each time a new couple is tied in marital knot, it is inscribed on the walls of their homes.

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The train journeys can get longer at times when you have tried all sorts of entertainment, starting from reading a book and using all your gadgets one after the other and the battery reaches the lowest in no time.You sure have tried sleeping when there is a kid yapping endlessly at one side and the other traveler giving an update of where he has reached in every 5 minutes. Mixture of different irritating voices one after the other where you really do not want to figure out what is happening and where is it coming from.

I still think the best seat is the upper berth, as you are doing your own thing and no one is really bothered. You are in your own world. You can’t really enjoy the view outside if you are on a day train. So, I decided to see the stretch of sand dunes for an hour which I would be crossing.

The sight described from my eyes: Seeing the desserts with green grasses and bunch of trees and bushes makes me wonder who owns the land which goes to acres and acres. Some piece of land looks beautiful when the carpeted grass is around and the birds are sitting on the tree, the yellowish tinge of mustard flowers makes it all the more prettier. Both the sides with brown sand and a line of trees stretching long. As I am writing I can hear the sound of the train wheels on rail, the wind being dusty yet fresh. There are small hut houses in the middle of nowhere. Damn, when I thought no one stays here, I just see a young lady carrying her child on one hand and a pot made of clay.

Even in this foggy weather, the mustard plants are shining yellowish and a herd of sheep and cows are grazing at places. The ship of the desert carrying their passengers are a usual sight and I hope that the visit to the golden city is sooner.

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Undoubtedly, Facebook has been one of the sites that we open n number of times. Be it for giving out a message, or using it as a chat messenger, checking if the one that we want to talk is online or not. From uploading an album of the latest trip, the check in at places lets other know where you are chilling at and the statuses shows how you have been shuffling with your thoughts. It has been a medium of advertisement for many groups. Spreading news, getting the videos viral, fan pages, your interest, and the movies that you have watched and the list goes on and on.

A person can practically spend an entire day on Facebook, checking others profiles which might lead to stalking too. Or for that matter choosing the picture to upload, editing it, and once you are done with uploading, checking how many comments or likes it gets in every half an hour. It is more like a diary, which is a personal one, and everything happening in your life is recorded with evidences. It is just that the version of the notes are being made simpler each time that the user does not want to change. The quality is so impressive and user friendly and it keeps getting newer and cooler ways of approaching the audience.

Imagine one fine day, Facebook gets banned and there is no way that you can retrieve your creative statuses, the various photo albums which were shared by your friends, the different places that you had been to, the mood swings. How annoying is that going to get. Can you imagine a life without knowing what others are doing?? (Pun intended). Who would you get all the attention from?? The thought of it is uncanny, but who knows!! Why don’t you make a diary- a personal scrap book just for yourself, wherein you have your fondest memories written and the places that you have been to and posting what is in your mind with the printed copy of your best snaps. Your journey can be looked back upon after 20 years, when the number of likes in your heart would matter more!!

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One of the subjects which can be spoken endlessly, having no answer to, no solution, if we have to elaborate it more, it is basically a vicious circle where the talks do not get you anywhere. You can talk about it day and night and you will get back to square one. That’s right – LOVE it is.

There is no reasoning to falling in love, and the person that you want to be with, it just happens and you exactly know why your heart has chosen him/her. The relation between two people should not be judged by anyone. The two people only know the connection, charisma, attraction that they have. Now here we are going to discuss about – mad, passionate, extraordinary love. If you aren’t fully committed or sure about it, it is just a waste of time.

So most of us are in love, or were in love anytime in their lives, what do you think of the first paragraph?? I am sure majority are going to agree to it. The question in my mind is does love have an expiry date?? This question is way trickier than it sounds. Every person who has fallen for the cupid stupid thing called love certainly wants the same feeling and the same correlation forever. Can that emotions stay till eternity?? As you get into a relationship and know more about the person with time, it is very common for you to change your perception towards them or you could happily accept the way they are. This again depends on the degree of how flexible you are because there are some people who are really sure of what they are looking for, and they will not be in relationship until they find the perfect man.

Leaving all this aside, when a bond, a tie is going on really perfectly and you have loved each moment with that special someone for a decade now, can love just vanish in some months. How is that even possible?? Can a person change altogether or the situations make him what he never imagined him to be?? Some say that when things do not work out well, it is best to let go and move on. If it comes back it was always yours, or else it never was. There is no point carrying it over when there is no craziness. There are expiry dates for the phases of being in love. You cannot be cheesy all the while; love cannot be in the air each moment. With time the phase passes and it diminishes. The others say that with the high and low, love keeps growing as time goes by, and when it only increases whatever position that you are in, you will make things correct, and you will go that extra mile only for her. Even if two people are not together for any reason, the love always stays for that person, be it in any way, because it can really have no expiry date. The memories that you have had can never expire as it has beautifully made you a better person along the way. And as quoted earlier, there can be no end to this as we are back at the same trivia!! Does love have an expiry date??

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We thought we are the bunch of cool kids around the town, way smarter, ahead of times, and the exposure that all of us have gotten by studying in different parts of the world. But hold on people you are mistaken here. The children of today’s era are unimaginable, so witty that leaves you surprised most of the times when they answer back. The approach towards things, the stubbornness, and their attitude is so demanding, aggressive and the maturity level is over their age. At times I wonder what the next generation is going to be like. What more?? I might be sounding a little out of the box, but seriously.

The toddlers already know how to open an iPad, to listen to their favorite music and eating food , the logical reasoning that they want in everything, the analysis, the one liners, forgetting what a bicycle ride is, what ringa ringa roses are, or for that matter any outdoor game. Here I am talking about technology to actions, to possession of a gadget, or say how the creativity of a child is going down. When you think about it, this is happening all around, even with us, we are so hooked on to our tablets all the time. Our day to day life feels so different when we are off the internet.

But there are definitely some of the things that the younger ones are missing out on:

1. Playing hide and seek and spending much of the time at the outdoors. Run to play as soon as you finish your home work and now kids run for their homework only if they get time from online gaming.

2. Value of money has definitely depreciated .There was a time when a certain amount of money was given for the entire month. We were to eat, travel in local transport, chill in that budget. It is so different now. The kids are never satisfied with what they have. This is true for any social animal though.

3. They are missing out on writing with fountain pens, filling your pen with ink was such a task. The shirts getting dirty with ink blots were pretty normal.

4. Listening to the songs through cassette. And buying one for the undying love of our favorite singer where we would have one of the albums.

5. The time has passed so quickly: – started with floppies, and then came to CD’s, and then some pen drive, and now you can keep your documents on your Drop box.

6. Everyone’s searched substance for their projects in encyclopedias, used dictionaries and thesaurus for our grammar, but since all the answers are on Google, why the pain!!

7. Giving out personalized postcards, greeting cards over the mail, this generation has hardly sent letters.

8. Collections on stamps, coins were one of the famous hobbies and it surely increased our knowledge and geography too. Wouldn’t say it is extinct but it is getting less.

9. The rings on the landline are hardly heard, as kids have started owning a mobile phone too.

10. The children are happy in their own company; they are not bothered about what is happening on the outside for days and nights.

The times have changed, and so have we but seeing the change wherein belongings are becoming history is sad to see.

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