There are a lot of times and situations where one gets puzzled to say “NO” to the nearest people in different circumstances. It could be a request by favorite, or it could be about some work that one has no idea about. These are the set of people who are up for anything and everything at anytime. They will be ready for a getaway plan which is made a day before of travel, or would go an extra mile to be solving someone else’s worries. They try balancing different parts in their life, and would love to participate in every activity possible. There are times when they forget to balance themselves while running around. This definitely keeps this particular group busy.

It is really nice to come across people who have the above habit and thought process. The world would be such a gloomy place without these bunches. With all this appreciation, there are moments when this lot lacks the skill of prioritizing. It is amazing to help people, be around many and be their saviors. Nevertheless, they should also know what is important and when is it not.  People need to realize it is better to be finishing one task than to try and compile all of it together.

As we speak about one set of people who cannot say no, there are others who do not get affected with words and behavior of people in the long run. They do not over think and it is very hard for them to make a straight face. They are the types who forgive and forget and could also include the ones who would not forgive, but forget. Their attitude is never based on how they have been treated. They cannot hurt someone else’s feelings, just to let them understand how it felt when they were hurt. Even if a scenario opposite to this exists, the amusing bit is how people get offended when they are finally treated the same.

I personally would not vouch for what is correct or what is wrong, it is who we are, the values that we have and the individual’s nature. People with good hearts are rare, but when we meet them we get to know instantly. This is who they are, with their heart and soul. There is no situation of “tit for tat” for them but it can get awful at times when the same mistake gets repeated several times on the chances given.