Each sun sign have their own characteristics .And there are many of us who believe in each quality that is described by our sign and most of us tend to behave as per the horoscope that we fall on. Yes, I am saying that the billions of people who are born on Oct 24 to Nov 22 are similar. They have a particular nature in them that makes them a true scorpion. The ones that I have met are really true at heart and down to earth and are adorable. Time and Scorpion do not go well together. They do not really care about punctuality and are mostly late for anything and everything. Their calculation of timing can never be understood by others. This one time a friend of mine was making couple of his other friends wait for half an hour outside his house as he had the keys, and we had to push him off as we were panicking about him being late. He was happily enjoying our company.

As all the work just turns out fine for them, as they are really good with reasons and are an expert in getting work done from others, the quotient of making them feel at fault is hardly there. Scorpions are really reasonable about situations but at the same time they are stubborn and envious. They can charm and woo people they have just met before five minutes. They can get as friendlier and make conversations very comfortable for a new person. Confusion is their second name and they are the most chilled out people I have come across. Even if they are running late to catch a bus, they will take their own sweet time to get ready, and the bus for some odd reason would be waiting for them.  Is it the luck or the behavior that everything will go on, and they cannot do anything about it, or is it law of attraction. I fail to understand. But it works around them. Are you one in the team?? Let me know if this defines you 🙂

P.S – Being a SCORPION, I can totally relate to this.

On the last show of mine, at Love- A-lution, a show which is all about love, we were talking about flirting, which was quite the topic and that too when one is in a relationship. So there were loads of themes on my mind when it comes to the cupid thing called love and I happened to choose this amazing subject suggested by a regular listener of ours. So while we got onto this topic it was crazy as many people had different ideas, some said that the talent of attracting people and charming is inborn and it cannot be learnt. And some said to keep it going as there is no harm till your intentions are correct. And some were of the thought that once you are in a relationship and one talk leads to another, you should not move forward with it as you are giving hopes at the other side. So what do you think about it?

Flirting is a kind of social interaction. We flirt with people whom we want to know more about, or someone we admire and adore. Some are gifted flirts and anything they say sounds so romantic without trying. Believe me, flirting lines really work; the only thing is you need to be confident in that tone!!

Is flirting cheating??Some say it is when you cross the line. Now what line are we talking about?? It also depends on your definition of cheating again. Would you tell the person that you are in love with that you have been talking to this stranger for a long time and the company of that person is totally awesome. When I have to answer that question, I guess it depends on the person that you are with, if he is cool with the idea of you chilling out with others than you should tell him or else just let it be. Relationships are all based on trust and the space that you can give to the other person, accepting the person how he or she is and not to forget that you fell in love with the same person. So why would you want him to change now?? In this busy life, unless you are in the same field you are not connected all the time, but you are connected with multiple people on the other hand. And it is perfectly fine when your conversations go on and on with people you have just met. There are just two things that revolve around flirting where you need not think twice about it– You should be clear at heart and you have the power of wooing people around you. At times with a little of flirting, you do not even realize that you are .

There are times when it gets totally crazy when the other person is super possessive and would not let the other one talk and make conversations around. I guess for them, somewhere it always stays that they are going to lose the relationship they have and are really insecure. Moreover, I guess what they look for is the attention from the other one all the time. It is so insane when the small things turn out to be a lot more complicated and there is no reason for one.

I would just end by saying:”Flirt away. As long as your intentions are fine and you’re just having fun, it’s really no big deal”

I simply love to spell. And till this date spellings and I go really well. And here I am talking about saying out the letters in a word in no time. This reminds me to go back to school and take a spell buzz (Competition back in those times). Spellings have always fascinated me and mostly been correct. The time that it has gone wrong is mostly with an incorrect pronunciation. While compared to then and now the spellings are just fine but the formation of my sentences at times does not make sense at all. I would give 50 % fault to the T9 dictionary that we have been hooked on to while we type a message or a mail and the way our thumbs work in a mille second is just fantastic. But the worst part is the message to be conveyed is totally wrong. And when you read the conversation again, it’s so funny that you cannot stop laughing. Sometimes the person on the other side has to ask what the reference is because the meaning turns the topic upside down. I have been warned by my friends to read the message before sending but as we all know Bad habits die hard. Some of my creation presented for a good laugh!!

There my uncle asked me to check flight tickets for his travel on the last day of this month while I was downloading applications on my phone and simultaneously replying to a mail and chatting with my college friends. So I went to him and switched on my laptop and started looking at different sites. When those sites started loading in seven different tabs, I started working on my phone again. I was doing all the work together and giving him the required information as soon as he asked me. After some time, when my uncle lost his patience, he asked me to switch my phone and just concentrate on one thing and finish it off. And he told me at their times they were no gadgets to keep everyone so busy.

That’s when I got reminded once again that in this generation it is really hard to be doing just one thing and staying idle is just not our cup of tea. Give it a thought yourself. While you are walking alone or travelling alone, you are on a call (just so you can pass your time and reach your destination faster) or it’s the video games keeping you busy. When you are all by yourself, there is a gadget right beside you, be it your phone, be it your notebook. You are always doing 3-4 things at one time. While you are doing different stuff like working out, at a boring meet, the time just goes by so fast and at times the thing that you actually started your work with does not get done. We cannot watch television for an hour straight, without checking our phone once. And this goes to kids too. The act of doing different things at times is so unplanned and is not done deliberately. It’s the situation at times. Each one of us have become perfect in multi-tasking, even if the task performed are just the one or not.

In 2 years time that I have stayed in K-town, this was the 5^th time my car/ bike had a flat tire  And each time I felt like it was the first time. The thought struck my mind – Is it my riding/ driving or is it because of the roads in the city which is being demolished in each side and constructed after weeks and weeks. Kudos to the project head when it’s finally done .You can ride normally without a bumpy ride and without waiting for half an hour to cross a 5 minute drive and thankfully no blocked roads because of the structure. I agree it’s hard to control the traffic when the widening of the roads is being done but seriously how long we have to use the diverted roads when it’s blocked. And to realize the poles on the side are still blocking the way of the car as it’s still on the middle of the roads. And there we have the next construction team working on that. Anyways, it’s always better late than never. What made me write was how your mind works when you see a flat tire.

1. Firstly, when you see a flat tire as soon as you are about to leave for your work, gym, appointments, the very first thought of how are you going to reach that place comes in the picture. How much time that you have, and how important is it to reach the place?? Alternatives, friends staying nearby who could drop you or taking a cab, all these thoughts keep shuffling in your mind. Informing the office or concerned person that you cannot make it on time. Calling up at your place and telling them that you are genuinely stuck for an hour at the minimum.

2. And there if you cannot leave your vehicle at the middle of the road, you tell your heart that everything will just be fine. And its just simple physics and everything is related to lever, recalling the fifth standard science. It is really easy.  Put the jack at the right place and turn and twist it upwards and take the lug nuts out of the tire, replacing it with the one in the trunk. You can simply do that.

3. With all the willpower that you have, you go to change the tire  realizing that the tire is super heavy and you cannot take the one in the trunk out all by yourself. Moreover, finding the iron is an easy task but the jack raiser / lower is not, if you really have no idea about mechanical parts of the car. And the last resort is to find someone who can change it for you.

4. Switching on the “Around Me” application on an iphone does not really work at places like K-town where you can get to know the repair shops and how far it is. Asking the cab drivers, barging into a stranger’s house and asking the owner if their drivers are free has mostly worked out for me. The worst situation that I have been in when the spare tire is also punctured and there is no workshop nearby. Walked a kilometer and a half and I came across a repair shop, and I had to use my charm to get the mechanic to the place I had left my car.

5. Once again I realize how important it is for a driver to know how to change the tire of the car, it has to be one of the conditions of getting the license (Wild thought). And learning how to change a tire was on the top of my list. This was the first thing that I did after reaching home and second was writing this piece.

PS. I CAN NEVER IMAGINE A FLAT TYRE ON A HIGHWAY. DAMN; I WOULD BE STRANDED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE LONG LOST ROAD AND TO ADD TO IT NO NETWORK ON THE PHONE.

There is so much to achieve. And our goals and targets are so challenging that it leaves us with each day as a test. And taking each day as an examination we do the best that we can with the best we have. That is the charisma of time. It slips by so fast and 24 hours seem so less. I wish there was an extra time for the ones who think it’s less. Somewhere you could trade time with the ones who have no idea what to do with so much of ample time. And there are so many of us who are grumpy and tetchy about how boring the day can get or there is nothing to do at all. Look around there are thousands of things that can be done and hundreds of stuff that can make you smile. Just choose what interests you and pick that hobby and do things that make you feel lively and productive by the end of the day.

There are some of us who do not like the 8 hour job and can crib about it day and night. There is less of concentration on what you are actually doing and again we gripe how we are so bored in life. If you do not like it why don’t you just leave it?? What’s the point on continuing with something and hating it at the same time? And in addition to that people nag about not having time for their loved ones as they are really busy. How can one be so busy and forget what they really want or wish for??

And I just came across this quote which says : STOP ACTING AS IF LIFE IS A REHEARSAL, THE PAST IS OVER AND GONE, THE FUTURE AIN’T GUARANTEED :)There is not much understanding to the whole thing, If you start living your day as your last, you will get all the answers that you are longing for!!

There are these times when you take a step and decide about something. You are so clear about what you don’t want and you have no clue what’s in store for you. The best part is you are so chilled about everything because as we know nothing goes by as planned, so it is no point whining about stuff. Even when you are heading to a “Destination Unknown”, you can just trust and believe that everything will just work out fine. It always has. Why not this time??

That moment that you believed your heart and went ahead with your intuition, now there is only looking ahead for the best things. Standing strong with the judgement of yours even if it’s a wrong one is what growing up is all about.

It is so true that you are left with mixed feelings and are unsure of things around you as you are answerable to so many people, about so many things. You need to solve the puzzle of your life. It could be real soon or a little later. It is your call and you are the making yourself a masterpiece. All I am saying is if some plan doesn’t work out, it is totally fine, you got to know it was not meant to be rather than pondering over the things that you always wanted to do. Don’t let others play with your mind about their views and get onto you. You have taken the choice which is not momentary, and a thought has been given to it. And I am sure these transitory and quick decisions are for the best.

*LIVE YOUR DREAM, LIVE YOURSELF*

When it comes to keeping the relationship charming, it seems like an easy task, but one of the most difficult things is to keep a girl happy each time. I am sure most of the guys will agree with me on this. It’s just something there that they are not satisfied with. If you give them space, they are of the view that you don’t really care about them, if you are getting more updates about what is happening in their lives, they will have a long talk on being free and not interfering too much in their lives.  They don’t need any reason to be infuriated at with their loved one even if the person loves them like crazy. Till date I have always been the speaker for men and will be, always justified the boy’s part, and I personally think they are more practical and reasonable than girls. It’s more like ladies are more of attention seekers. But then there are a few of them who don’t really care much about anything. There is not much thought given to the relationship because it’s a part of life, not the LIFE. There is so much more to be discovered than being in a relationship. But even when they are so chilled out about things and situations, a bond can never work out smoothly. Is it because of change in time?? Is it because of taking the other one for granted?? Is it the thought that she doesn’t really bother because she does not talk about it?? I fail to understand when I hear relationship not working out after 7-8 years.  The love does not die, I guess it’s the communication and expression of feelings which does !!

And when the relationship is growing with each moment ,  this feeling remains the same after years and years !! THAT’S THE CRAZY -THING-CALLED -LOVE 🙂

And one of those days you just feel like writing, letting your thoughts out, and where you can just talk about anything and everything. It could be the random idea in your mind to something very important.  It could be about the smallest thing that made your day when you did something like looking at the stars and make a constellation or about a particular incident that changed you. I know it sounds crazy.  But that is the power of a BLOG.  It does not matter if someone is reading your piece and judging .It’s just for you. You don’t need to impress anyone and need not care how others interpret it. So if you have not tried it, you should start right away as you are missing something AHMAZING. And trust me it’s so much of fun when you keep posting and expressing through words.   The time when you read your writings after some days, it’s gets crazier and I bet you will start wondering  where was this perfect writer lost?? And come to a conclusion that you should start writing a novel . And there are times when there are puzzle of words which has no meaning but yet it forms a beautiful piece. And this one being the latter one !!

P.S :: GOOD MUSIC & BLOGGING COULD END THE DAY JUST PUURFFECT :*