This post is written out of the everyday situations that Kathmanduites are facing and seriously nothing, nothing is being done about it and it’s getting onto our nerves now, but as we are, with so much of patience and wanting for a change to happen or a miracle to occur. Let me just put it up in one liners:

1. The potholes on the road is so much of trouble for driving the vehicles and when it’s a rainy season, it couldn’t have gotten any worse.

2The dust on the road because of the destruction is causing so many diseases, we can see people on masks while walking too, it’s become like as if flu is all around the town.

3. There are vehicles which emit black smoke and it is so difficult for the passerby and the vehicle behind them to even breathe, like literally its BLACK. I wonder when the last pollution control was done.There is so much of pollution everywhere. It s just feels sad to see Our Green Ktm go BLACK.

4. The garbage all around in different parts of the city are scattered. Sometimes the roads are filled with rubbish thrown around that it covers half of the road making it a one way.

5. There are no street lights, so when its dark, its worse and dividers in inappropriate lanes, so if a new person is driving in the city, he has to be very careful. There are so many accidents happening because of no street lights.

6. The traffic system, do we really have one?? There are no traffic signals and if there are they do not work. The places where it really works there is no police control. The traffic is crazy and these day’s small lanes are overcrowded taking hours to reach a 20 minute drive.

There is no traffic sense and we too drive like insomniacs, cause each one is in such a hurry to reach the destination. It’s become unbearable to listen to the ongoing honking if you stay near the road side.

7. The city is becoming so unplanned day by day. Firstly, we were widening the roads, that drive is not over and now we are getting the phone lines underground. So, basically the labour was used twice, with twice the effort and fund.

The roads are on the poorest conditions, what’s left is also withering away with the demolitions.

8.  Water and electricity being the main ingredients of life. We all know the scarcity of it in the country. The country being the 2^nd largest in Water resources and still we are dying for water. What a shame!!

9. All of us have been just talking about how hot it has become, and this summer’s it has been exceptionally warm, its all because of the population and the increase in number of vehicle. The number of people  have increased so much as compared to the ratio of previous years.

10. When we talk on the public vehicle front, it is very annoying. The connectivity is very less and the way it pushes in people more than the capacity is  beyond concern.

11.Oh now when we talk about the citizen we have this habit of spitting around wherever we like, wherever we are. We don’t really look around. I guess its genetic (Sarcasm unintended)

There are loads of things that government needs to implement and carry out but at the same time on becoming responsible citizen of this country we need to take various things in mind, starting by not littering the place around.  Keeping our surrounding clean cause we all want a GREENER KATHMANDU!!

Gardening and green goes hand in hand. It’s so beautiful to see the fresh fruits and vegetables growing around the house. The best is during the starting of spring. I just love it then. The flowers start blooming and the bright and clear sky just makes the day perfect.  There is such hard labour work with the seeds being sown, watering them and waiting for it to reap. The fertilizers and the mixture of various soil nutrients is a skill one needs to master at. It’s seems so easy when the food is made and served right on the dinner table. But, the whole process and cycle is so tiresome. Gardening depends on each person’s interest. It’s more of a hobby. We did water the plants around the house as kids but now it’s all gone. I believe if time can be taken out it does not take more than 15 minutes but we would just blame it on laziness. The greenery and the tall trees surrounding the house is the best thing one can ask for. Getting up with the sun rays falling right at the window sill right in the morning is just wonderful. Just posting some of the pictures taken at the backyard of my house..

And while I just wrote about Generation gap on my last post, it’s just so fascinating when we look over the things that have changed around in a few years. Seriously, there are quite a few of things that amaze me. These are all incidents of personal practice. I still remember how we had typewriter classes in school and the kids now must not have even seen it. It is a compulsory rule to own a laptop in today’s date. Here, there is no comparison between technologies, it’s just citing out various instances which has changed quite a bit.

There was a time, when we pulled out the ink bottle and dipped our fountain pen and there was a trick of filling the ink in the pen. We had to be really careful at it and it was such a messy work, usually the ink blot getting spread on the paper or the skirt’s pocket.  And now we just have been using gel and ball pens and the ink bottles are rare to be seen.

The usage of mobile phone and the everyday launch of new technology are overwhelming. There is so much that one can do with the device and there was a time, it feels like an era now, that we hoped for getting a cell-phone. And I, myself have changed about 5 to 6 of them till now. Everyone has a cellular device these days. No doubt, it makes things easier and has its own benefits but there are so many of us who are glued onto it for hours and hours not thinking that the future impact of it is going to be worse. We can see people in their headphone tuned onto music which is  best for the music lovers but being hooked onto it day and night will make our ear drums not work for long. Everything has its boon and bane and everything before and now is charming, but when it comes to technological the change is quite impressive.

And even when it comes to clicking pictures, i remember myself going to the nearby shop and giving the reel for printing and we would all be so excited when it published. The anxiety level was at its top. And now with the passage of time, we can click hundreds of snap in some minutes and erase them whenever wanted. The important part here is we humans like to keep all the snapshots forever , even if we are never going to look at it again . Its just put in our desktop or written in the compact disks having no idea of where will it be in 6 months.

The tradition of going for family picnics has increased,socializing has become out-bound which is a good thing as exposure is a must for growth!! But at the same time “EVERYTHING IS NICE TILL WE CAN LIVE A  BALANCED LIFE”

We keep talking about generation gap. We are all in the 21^st century and we have become so advanced in our thought processes but some of our views still remain conventional. But to think about it, it’s our loved ones that we are talking about and the relationship with them. Can there be such a time where we cannot explain what we feel like and the situation that we are going through?? I am sure all of us haven’t really taken an effort to discuss issues and there has been an impression already inscribed on our minds. We have just accepted the fact that things will not work out and our wavelength and thinking process will never match.

It is really difficult and with the times changing there are so many things which we are cool about and our folks are not. We have our own definitions, own explanations and own rule and principles. There are very least chances when there are no clashes between the parent and a child. Especially when the child is in his teens, and whatever he does, he thinks is correct. And with time when the maturity level comes, interpretation of things becomes different.

It is very true that our folks have had quite an experience, and they know about a lot with so much of understanding, but there is no harm in listening to the youth and the younger generation. They have a creative mind and so much to offer that it needs to be taken care of. It might not be justifiable, not be reasonable, might be so random, and out of the blue, but there is a reason behind it, there’s always something meaningful in it. Hear them out, hear them speak, Listen patiently, Relate to their emotions and then there will be no GENERATION GAP!!

The airports have become as busy as stations

That’s when India is one of the developed nation

Seniors of 85 speaking fluent English

They love Italian food along with every dish.

The standard of living gone so high

With the tax and law being so bind

The roads and streets are well maintained

Even if  they don’t have a six way lane.

The technology has developed things so fast

Doesn’t feel that we got freedom half a century past

The ethnicity and socio – cultural passages still prevail

The deserts and villages still remain.

Values and principles at the strongest

But why do we lack in courtesy aspect

The weather shows us extremes

Yet it is the hub of ASIA, THE CREAM!!

So those hundred and eighty minutes are way crucial than watching a 3 hour movie ..The level of concentration required, and the memory keeps rolling,the remembrance of that particular page in the book, and those mind blogging sessions.

1. The one that tops my list is when the person ahead of you has that long hair which given a chance you would chop them of  of that instant cause it’s irritating when the strands of hair fall  right on your paper.

The hustle bustle all around

Doesn’t feel like 4 in the morn

So many people the less the count

Travelling has become the new out bound.

People from varied cultures are all in here

Making there way around the sphere

So much of commotion is going on the mind

Even when the directions are given spell bound.

So interesting to listen to the talk

Each one trying to make their block

The atmosphere being so lively

OMG, the gossip can turn out to be way ugly.

But, nothing like travelling alone

Helps you explore, the more you grow

Rushing in a long line queue

When everyone has to board with the same crew!!

There is a long way to go

With you standing right on my door

Loving each day, living like a princess

My heart jitters with each caress.

The pamper and love that is showered

Will always remain forever and with the same power

The smallest things that is noticed

Gives a special feeling and gets you going.

I want the time to come by

Where the vacations gave quite a high

I want to feel the fresh air in the balcony

This was the first task in the morning.

Writing these couplets makes my heart smile

Recalling each moment and the happiest times

The walk has made us so strong till now

And as we grow I am in love with each flow.

Thankfulness is what I have to give

As you gave me the “mantra” to live

All the bliss on your way

This makes it a complete bay.

                                        ‘FRIENDSHIP = SISTERHOOD = PURE LOVE’

The bond that lies in a sisterhood is so strong and it’s just the best thing one can ask for. Staying in a joint family with cousins all over the place makes my house more lively. The other day I was just reading the book on Soul sisters and those stories did inspire me to write a small note for all the lovely girls out there.

The connection when things are unspoken and unsaid but yet there is a link that can be easily understood is the best part. The crazy stories of each one’s life and the random advices even when not asked for. And the suggestion being so spontaneous that if one had to follow, a second thought was certain. The shopping mode being at its best when each one of us entering the store at the same time and meeting at the billing booth after quite a few of hours. The secrets and the pampering at its finest, covering up for all the goof ups and at the same time the tiff on the smallest of issues leaving you in astonishment. The warmth even after meeting after a long time and the evening walks with the continuous talk. Laughing your heart out at the dumbest jokes and being able to talk about anything and everything.

This relationship is adorable and beautiful::*

P.S:: ‘The Sisterhood of travelling pants’ is a must watch !! I loved it..

Dreams can be so descriptive and expressive and there are times when we don’t even remember a bit of it. It just stays so hazy in our mind and even if we try remembering a part and link it to the rest of delusion, our memory fails. There are so many times those multiple visions that we have ends up intermingling each other and at times crystal clear.

I have experienced the craziest of dreams from some celebrity coming at my place in a limousine to take us out on a premier show to being the last person on earth. It’s mostly said that whatever you think before your beauty sleep is what lies on your unconscious. And so did my mom make it a habit for us to wash our feet and say a small midnight prayer before sleeping.

Sleeping can be a task at times when you are of the category that cannot get sleep even after an hour of lying in the bed. And when that mind is quite idle it starts wondering various thoughts, so the best medicine will be just to distract you by reading a book or probably watching a movie.

Now while writing I just happen to remember one of my dreams which was beyond imagination. I was watching a television-series and we all know how addictive that can make you. And watching one episode one after other you just don’t get to know how time goes by. And for time that you are watching you just feel like not stopping unless you watch till the last episode. Anyways, getting back to the dream I was at my house and the party was thrown by the hottest actor “Nathaniel Fitzwilliam” a.k.a Nate Archabald with a mix of other stars and who knows from where the swimming pool was there on the open space. So it was basically a pool party with all the Hollywood small screen actors. And the DJ was awesome. Like wait for it – LEGENDARY. So we were having a crazy time dancing and my granddad joined the troop. And seeing him dance was basically way out of the blue. And then suddenly the music slowed down and everyone was doing a ball- dance. And when I started dancing with one my best stars and that’s when our eyes met. I was shaken by the co-passenger in the flight if I wanted something to munch on. And the rest of the dream stayed unknown.

But I am surely taking up the idea of throwing a grand party at the backyard of my house!! And making a dream diary!!